We
all have desire, but what propels some to achieve where
others stagnate? How does one stay motivated to do the
work that produces results? What helps our belief become
so strong that we cannot be stopped? The answer to all
of these questions is Attitude.
Attitude begins with how you react to challenges. "I
can overcome this," or, "I'm not sure if I can," are
the two basic responses you will choose from when faced
with adversity. On the road to success, you will have
endless opportunities to answer challenges with, "I
don't think..." "I can't..." "In my opinion..." "It's not
worth..." "I am not sure..." etc. These are easy answers
because they require no further action. I once heard
a very successful businessman say, "You will either
make excuses or money." I have observed this to be true
in all professions. You must be willing to pay the price
for success, and a "can do" attitude is your first down
payment. The choice is yours.
An attitude of humility promotes open-mindedness, and
an open mind is a prerequisite for learning. A positive
attitude means you must humble yourself to listen to
the advice of people who have done what you want to
do. It is your choice.
Bolster your attitude by associating with successful
people. Get around positive uplifting folks and see
how they answer challenges. Their examples will uplift
you and increase your belief level. Likewise, protect
your attitude by limiting your exposure to negative
friends who are "just trying to help you." As parents
we are all concerned with whom our children associate.
Are you discerning about whom YOU hang out with?
We cannot often control the events in our lives, but
we can choose how we react to them. The key to your
success will be your attitude. A positive attitude is
a priceless possession, free for the choosing.
